Guys, meet Jay Williams an Atlanta-based video producer who is currently making headlines thanks to his personal life. Dude is the biological father of 34 children by 17 different mothers!!
Yes, you read those figures correctly! Jay even has 9 additional children that he has embraced or adopted, which means he has a total of 43 children. Two of his 17 babymamas were best friends and got pregnant for him at the same time! His youngest child is 3, while the oldest is 26.
In a revealing letter written to spiritual and relationship expert Iyanla Vanzant, of OWN's Iyanla: Fix My Life fame, 44 year old Williams said he wants to be a better father. Williams told Iyanla that his relationships with his kids range from excellent to non-existent, and even Iyanla Vanzant was almost at a loss for where to begin.
Check out the clip of Iyanla asking Jay why he never considered a vasectomy after the cut
The first thing Iyanla had done was confront Williams with a physical representation of his responsibility by bringing him 34 dolls. She asks Williams to hold as many dolls as he can, to feel the weight of what he's created. But he could only hold 14.
"Let me ask you this question, Jay. Thirty-four children. At any point, did it dawn on you [that] this is too much?" Iyanla asks.
"No," Williams answers evenly.
When Iyanla asks Williams about using protection during sex, he insists that he did.
"I probably would have 200 kids if I didn't use condoms," he says
Williams says he never considered getting a vasectomy, either. Because he didn't want one. Watch the interview below.
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